Initially, I started out with a physical goal … to drop that 2% fat I had gained during our holiday. Then without knowingly doing it my focus shifted onto a different direction…..On becoming a better version of Andie. I let go of perfectionism, learned to love myself with all my flaws and since my family likes me the way I am then why should I doubt it? During that time I had also had a wake-up call but from our own Holly. With her support, encouragement, positive energy, and smiles she kicked my butt and I was back to my taking better care of ME. Within a week my confidence went right up through the roof.
I swapped multi-tasking with single tasking. Now, things not only get done a lot faster and with no delays but I also have time to sit with my family and read books to the boys.
I learned to say No to what I don’t need or wanted, I am asking for help. I have stopped being a martyr. I have started planning again with the help of The Journey Journey. I am also continuing getting up as soon as the alarm goes off. Now there is no shouting in the mornings and everyone is more calm since mummy is more calm.
I have a lot more confidence, feel more assertive and I know what I want……well most of the time. I stopped feeling guilty and I take control of my setbacks as I don’t get upset when my day doesn’t go as planned….instead I go with the flow. And you know what it doesn’t matter because life happens!! There is no such thing as perfection.
2 years later I am in a lot better place. I am healthier, stronger, fitter, a better fighter.
I am continuous work in progress and I am Happy!!! Thank you, Holly!!
– Andie Moss